QUALITIES of people WHO are NOT

healthy for me

People who do not work through disagreements and grow with me

Showing up to use me

Never asking how I am

Judgemental

People who only reach out when they need something

Impatient

one way relationships

My husband always says "People only want to hear you say what they think come out of your mouth" and it's often true.

Shaming me

Disrespect

Personal Projections based on their fears or beliefs that are placed onto me. 

My PEOPLE

My people mean so much to me. Support is everything. I define support by the qualities listed below in the people who mean the most to me. They make me feel as though I don't have to explain myself or hide my illnesses or be my best just to make them comfortable. They don't make me feel like I am hard to love. I can be myself around them. I know they just get me and they won't give up on me.

I really don't care that much about gifts, or money, or what you can do for me. I care about heart. I am pretty simple.

THESE ARE qualities of my people

Not afraid to stick with me through conflicts and disagreements.

Commitment

Acceptance instead of Judgement

Checking on me

Respect

Open Minds

Love during the highest and the lowest

Dedication

Reciprocation

Acknowledgment

Kindness

Patience especially with my disorders

Affirmation

Active Listener

Flexible