QUALITIES of people WHO are NOT
healthy for me
People who do not work through disagreements and grow with me
Showing up to use me
Never asking how I am
Judgemental
People who only reach out when they need something
Impatient
one way relationships
My husband always says "People only want to hear you say what they think come out of your mouth" and it's often true.
Shaming me
Disrespect
Personal Projections based on their fears or beliefs that are placed onto me.
My PEOPLE
My people mean so much to me. Support is everything. I define support by the qualities listed below in the people who mean the most to me. They make me feel as though I don't have to explain myself or hide my illnesses or be my best just to make them comfortable. They don't make me feel like I am hard to love. I can be myself around them. I know they just get me and they won't give up on me.
I really don't care that much about gifts, or money, or what you can do for me. I care about heart. I am pretty simple.